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The phenomenon that what you think “be made” becomes “want to do”.
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Children are easily made to feel inferior by being physically outmatched by the adults around themAdlerian psychology
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There is a self-image of being perceived as “incapable” by those around you.
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This is where the desire to be appreciated by those around you arises by actually doing what you say you can do.
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Desire for growth, desire to expand self
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Contrary to trying to develop skills to be able to do what you want to do.
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I just want to do what I think I can do and be appreciated.
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So, if it seems more difficult than you think, you lose motivation to do it.
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Because other “do-able” things seem easier.
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